Today I want to talk about being where you are. That sounds pretty redundant right? Well the Lord really began to deal with me about this subject a few weeks ago. As you all know I have this amazing woman in my life, D. I love her a lot. She's the right type of person for me because she's different than me in so many ways and I have learned so much from her. We have had many conversations about this topic but she really brought it home to me a couple of weeks ago. It was just a passing comment but sometimes the Lord will use those types of comments to speak to you and this was one of those times.
She is a first grade teacher. Now I believe that God anoints preachers to preach but from what I have seen, I think teachers need more anointing than most preachers. One day we were talking about school and she said it was a very demanding job because with twenty kids who are only six years old, she has to stay very focused on what is going on around her. She said that is something she works on in her life - giving whatever you are doing 100% of your energy while you are doing it. That was very interesting on a couple of levels.
First of all, it gave me more insight into her as a person and I really enjoy getting to know her. But it also made me examine my own behavior. It made me ask the question - Am I giving what I am doing my full attention?
Now I have seen this picture for a long time in a different area of my life. When I was married, I was not happy so I was always looking forward to the next thing. I tried to look forward to going to play golf because playing golf was fun and it helped me cope with the unpleasant things going on around me. It was sort of my way to escape from the real world. But here's what I noticed. When I got to the golf course, I would play a few holes and then I started looking forward to going out to dinner or the movies or something after our round of golf. More importantly, I quit enjoying the round of golf and found my only enjoyment coming from looking forward to the next thing.
I lived that way for a long time. So when I was with my friends, I was only partially with my friends because the other part of me was on to the next thing on my agenda. That wasn't fair to anyone. It certainly wasn't fair to my friends who were hanging out with me because they were giving me their full attention (at least as far as I could tell) but I wasn't doing the same thing. But it also wasn't fair to me. The people around me are all gifts from God and I wasn't enjoying the gifts that God put into my life.
Which brings me to another point. I wasn't being fair to God. He was placing all these great people and opportunities in front of me and I didn't enjoy them. To make matters worse, I didn't appreciate them like I should so I didn't value them as high as I should. That's terrible. Now the reverse of this can also be true. You can be so focused on some negative situation that it causes you to act the same way.
Now fast forward to the present. While I don't really look forward like that anymore, there is another place that is just as bad. I can be not totally present for no apparent reason. A person that I work with brought that up to me yesterday. He mentioned a specific incident where I was disconnected from a situation that I should have really paid attention. A person needed me to be caring and considerate and I was mentally absent. That is horrible and I have no excuse for my actions. But it is something that I want to watch.
So what am I saying today? Wherever you are, be there completely! Thank you D for reminding me of this very important issue. I love you.
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She is a first grade teacher. Now I believe that God anoints preachers to preach but from what I have seen, I think teachers need more anointing than most preachers. One day we were talking about school and she said it was a very demanding job because with twenty kids who are only six years old, she has to stay very focused on what is going on around her. She said that is something she works on in her life - giving whatever you are doing 100% of your energy while you are doing it. That was very interesting on a couple of levels.
First of all, it gave me more insight into her as a person and I really enjoy getting to know her. But it also made me examine my own behavior. It made me ask the question - Am I giving what I am doing my full attention?
Now I have seen this picture for a long time in a different area of my life. When I was married, I was not happy so I was always looking forward to the next thing. I tried to look forward to going to play golf because playing golf was fun and it helped me cope with the unpleasant things going on around me. It was sort of my way to escape from the real world. But here's what I noticed. When I got to the golf course, I would play a few holes and then I started looking forward to going out to dinner or the movies or something after our round of golf. More importantly, I quit enjoying the round of golf and found my only enjoyment coming from looking forward to the next thing.
I lived that way for a long time. So when I was with my friends, I was only partially with my friends because the other part of me was on to the next thing on my agenda. That wasn't fair to anyone. It certainly wasn't fair to my friends who were hanging out with me because they were giving me their full attention (at least as far as I could tell) but I wasn't doing the same thing. But it also wasn't fair to me. The people around me are all gifts from God and I wasn't enjoying the gifts that God put into my life.
Which brings me to another point. I wasn't being fair to God. He was placing all these great people and opportunities in front of me and I didn't enjoy them. To make matters worse, I didn't appreciate them like I should so I didn't value them as high as I should. That's terrible. Now the reverse of this can also be true. You can be so focused on some negative situation that it causes you to act the same way.
Now fast forward to the present. While I don't really look forward like that anymore, there is another place that is just as bad. I can be not totally present for no apparent reason. A person that I work with brought that up to me yesterday. He mentioned a specific incident where I was disconnected from a situation that I should have really paid attention. A person needed me to be caring and considerate and I was mentally absent. That is horrible and I have no excuse for my actions. But it is something that I want to watch.
So what am I saying today? Wherever you are, be there completely! Thank you D for reminding me of this very important issue. I love you.
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