Hello everyone,
This post should benefit me as much as anyone. Today I want to talk to you about recharging your batteries. Before I get to how, let me explain what type of batteries I am talking about. Today lets talk about your emotional batteries/love tank. This is the part of you that allows you to give to others. "Well I don't give to other's that I know of," you might say. That's probably not true but if it is, you need to change that part of your life. See true happiness lies in giving. I will tell you of one special place I got to give in a few minutes and the impact I think it had.
So let me reiterate something I have said many times before. You do give into other's lives every day whether you realize it or not. Mothers, you give into your children's lives constantly, every day, day in and day out. Fathers, we do the same thing. Children you are constantly giving into other children's lives. My children try to give into each other's lives every day but I keep telling them that giving hits and kicks isn't exactly what I had in mind.
Now let me say that I do consider myself a giver. In general if you asked the people who are close to me, they would probably use that word to describe me. I don't say this to be arrogant because I certainly know that if God didn't give into my life, I would have nothing to give anyone else. I'm not talking about money only although that is certainly important. But one thing that I have noticed about me is that after I give out for a while, I can fall into a funk of sorts if I am not careful. This is when I feel myself being the most selfish. I try hard not to let those selfish feelings translate into actions but they are there. Now we know that feelings signal needs. So what did I need? I needed my tank to be refilled or my batteries for giving and loving to be recharged.
Doesn't this make sense. How many of us have a cell phone? If we use and use it without ever plugging it into the wall, what will eventually happen? It will quit. The screen will just go blank and it will be useless to everyone. But if you plug it into the wall then after a time, you can listen to music, play games, make phone calls and do all the other things that phones do these days.
Well we are the same way. I remember one day I was out playing golf at a local golf course. I was alone and I was using my phone to listen to music while I walked the course. I was really in a sour mood but I didn't know why. Then the phone rang and I remember yelling at the top of my lungs at the phone (I didn't answer the phone so the person on the other end never knew this happened) - "What the ___ do you want from me!! I've got nothing else to give!!!!! Yes, I did use a cuss word and I shouldn't have. See, at that point, I felt completely empty and I needed to refill my tank but I didn't know why or how.
I have been through this a couple of times recently to a very very much less degree but I believe the Lord has shown me that when I get to a place like this, it's time to plug in and recharge my batteries. For me, this means going to Him. I remember getting very frustrated at people that were close to me because they weren't giving me what I needed but it really wasn't their place to give me what only God could. So I have learned that as I give out, it is important for me to go to God and replace what I give with what He gives. When I do this it gives me the opportunity to bless others like the young lady I had the opportunity to bless this week. I think I left her speechless and I guarantee you I had as much fun giving as she did receiving.
I hope this blesses you as much as it blesses me.
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This post should benefit me as much as anyone. Today I want to talk to you about recharging your batteries. Before I get to how, let me explain what type of batteries I am talking about. Today lets talk about your emotional batteries/love tank. This is the part of you that allows you to give to others. "Well I don't give to other's that I know of," you might say. That's probably not true but if it is, you need to change that part of your life. See true happiness lies in giving. I will tell you of one special place I got to give in a few minutes and the impact I think it had.
So let me reiterate something I have said many times before. You do give into other's lives every day whether you realize it or not. Mothers, you give into your children's lives constantly, every day, day in and day out. Fathers, we do the same thing. Children you are constantly giving into other children's lives. My children try to give into each other's lives every day but I keep telling them that giving hits and kicks isn't exactly what I had in mind.
Now let me say that I do consider myself a giver. In general if you asked the people who are close to me, they would probably use that word to describe me. I don't say this to be arrogant because I certainly know that if God didn't give into my life, I would have nothing to give anyone else. I'm not talking about money only although that is certainly important. But one thing that I have noticed about me is that after I give out for a while, I can fall into a funk of sorts if I am not careful. This is when I feel myself being the most selfish. I try hard not to let those selfish feelings translate into actions but they are there. Now we know that feelings signal needs. So what did I need? I needed my tank to be refilled or my batteries for giving and loving to be recharged.
Doesn't this make sense. How many of us have a cell phone? If we use and use it without ever plugging it into the wall, what will eventually happen? It will quit. The screen will just go blank and it will be useless to everyone. But if you plug it into the wall then after a time, you can listen to music, play games, make phone calls and do all the other things that phones do these days.
Well we are the same way. I remember one day I was out playing golf at a local golf course. I was alone and I was using my phone to listen to music while I walked the course. I was really in a sour mood but I didn't know why. Then the phone rang and I remember yelling at the top of my lungs at the phone (I didn't answer the phone so the person on the other end never knew this happened) - "What the ___ do you want from me!! I've got nothing else to give!!!!! Yes, I did use a cuss word and I shouldn't have. See, at that point, I felt completely empty and I needed to refill my tank but I didn't know why or how.
I have been through this a couple of times recently to a very very much less degree but I believe the Lord has shown me that when I get to a place like this, it's time to plug in and recharge my batteries. For me, this means going to Him. I remember getting very frustrated at people that were close to me because they weren't giving me what I needed but it really wasn't their place to give me what only God could. So I have learned that as I give out, it is important for me to go to God and replace what I give with what He gives. When I do this it gives me the opportunity to bless others like the young lady I had the opportunity to bless this week. I think I left her speechless and I guarantee you I had as much fun giving as she did receiving.
I hope this blesses you as much as it blesses me.
That's another Opinion of the Minion
