Hello All,
Today I want to talk to you for a few minutes about peace. This subject keeps coming up in my heart and it's my assignment for this post. When I say peace, I'm talking about peace inside us. I am not talking about world peace because while I believe that would be an amazing thing, I don't believe that we will see it until Jesus comes back.
However, isn't inner peace something we all want? Have you ever heard a parent say I would just like a little peace and quite around here? Have you ever been at a lake when the sun comes up in the morning? I used to go to a lake west of Fort Worth and one of my favorite parts of the trip was the very early morning when the dew was still on the ground. Most days you could see deer walk through the front yard going down to the lake to get a drink. The birds chirped softly in the background and the temperature was still cool. I loved it because I felt like I was at peace for a few minutes. Getting the lake or the ocean still causes me to feel peaceful today.
Now let's talk about things that make us lose our peace. There are people in my life that make staying peaceful difficult. Normally it's because they aren't at peace and their actions can be really annoying. I am sure there are people who would say the same thing about me at different points in life. Are there people in your life like that? Let's take it a step closer. Are there members of your family like that? For most people, the answer is probably yes. That's sad but true. Guess what, we can't do anything to change them. One of my favorite prayers is the serenity prayer - God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
Maybe there are circumstances in your life that cause you to lose your peace. Do you have a bill that you don't know how to pay? How about some other financial need that you don't know how to provide? Maybe you have a low grade in school and don't know how to bring it up. There are all kinds of circumstances in life that will cause us to lose our peace. While this is a blog for a different day, let me say that there are ways to change our circumstances. But many times we cannot change our circumstances instantly so what do we do while we are going through them? How do we keep our peace?
Maybe the answer is that we can't. Maybe we should just continue to blow a gasket every time someone or some circumstance causes us to feel stressed, etc. Many of us would like to stop right there and use this as an excuse to blow up whenever we feel like it. Now we should admit that we are mad. Trying to pretend we aren't isn't good because it's a lie. It's OK to feel mad or upset. It's even OK to get mad but when we get upset we lose the peace inside us. When we lose our peace, we are normally feeling stress. When our body is under stress there are all sorts of bad things that happen over time. Also, we feel anxious.
So what's the answer. Well you may or may not like it but we have to chose to stay peaceful. We have to make the decision that peace is something important to us and we have to protect it. Now most of you know that I'm a Christian. Jesus said that he gave me His peace. It was a gift he gave to me but just like all of His gifts I have to chose to recieve it. After I recieve it, I have to protect it.
If someone was breaking into your house to kidnap someone, would you try to stop them? Sure you would. I would even have tried to stop them from taking my little brother when we were kids. Now PK, you are on your own. Just kidding.
To me, inner peace is becoming more and more important. It is definitely worth protecting. There have been two instances in the last three days that have caused me to quit walking in the peace Jesus gave me. In both instances, I had to decide that I was going to remain at peace regardless of the situation. That is the real key, you have to decide that you are going to stay peaceful. Yes, this is something you can do if you chose to do so.
The first time, I was driving out to pick up my kids. As I got to a spot in the road where my lane merged with the lane next to me, the car in the other lane got in front of me and then started driving slower than I wanted to drive. I don't really have road rage and I really didn't get super mad but it did aggravate me. Now here's the great part of this story. As I started to get mad, I recognized that I was losing my peace. When it happened, I decided that it wasn't worth losing peace over and immediately let go of it. Instantly I became much more peaceful. I finally learned how to protect my peace and was successful doing it. For me, this was a major break through.
The second time I got an opportunity to practice what I am saying to you happened about an hour ago. I was faced with a situation that challenged me. This one involved a person in my life. I won't go into the situation but let's just say it was one that I have dreaded for some time. I knew it was going to be unpleasant and involve drama that I did not create but nevertheless would have to deal with. Because I have know for a while that it would have to come, it has caused me to lose my peace several times in the past. Guess what, after the encounter today I lost my peace again. However, this time I realized what happened. It took me a few minutes in the fresh air to think through the situation and I decided that losing my peace and contentment was not something I wanted to do. Honestly, I still don't know what to do with this person. But I do know this, I will remain peaceful. I have chosen not to let this person bother me. If I can do it, you can too.
To summarize, one of the most important things in life is inner peace. It is something to be desired, achieved and then protected. We have to chose to stay at peace regardless of our circumstances but it can be done.
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Today I want to talk to you for a few minutes about peace. This subject keeps coming up in my heart and it's my assignment for this post. When I say peace, I'm talking about peace inside us. I am not talking about world peace because while I believe that would be an amazing thing, I don't believe that we will see it until Jesus comes back.
However, isn't inner peace something we all want? Have you ever heard a parent say I would just like a little peace and quite around here? Have you ever been at a lake when the sun comes up in the morning? I used to go to a lake west of Fort Worth and one of my favorite parts of the trip was the very early morning when the dew was still on the ground. Most days you could see deer walk through the front yard going down to the lake to get a drink. The birds chirped softly in the background and the temperature was still cool. I loved it because I felt like I was at peace for a few minutes. Getting the lake or the ocean still causes me to feel peaceful today.
Now let's talk about things that make us lose our peace. There are people in my life that make staying peaceful difficult. Normally it's because they aren't at peace and their actions can be really annoying. I am sure there are people who would say the same thing about me at different points in life. Are there people in your life like that? Let's take it a step closer. Are there members of your family like that? For most people, the answer is probably yes. That's sad but true. Guess what, we can't do anything to change them. One of my favorite prayers is the serenity prayer - God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
Maybe there are circumstances in your life that cause you to lose your peace. Do you have a bill that you don't know how to pay? How about some other financial need that you don't know how to provide? Maybe you have a low grade in school and don't know how to bring it up. There are all kinds of circumstances in life that will cause us to lose our peace. While this is a blog for a different day, let me say that there are ways to change our circumstances. But many times we cannot change our circumstances instantly so what do we do while we are going through them? How do we keep our peace?
Maybe the answer is that we can't. Maybe we should just continue to blow a gasket every time someone or some circumstance causes us to feel stressed, etc. Many of us would like to stop right there and use this as an excuse to blow up whenever we feel like it. Now we should admit that we are mad. Trying to pretend we aren't isn't good because it's a lie. It's OK to feel mad or upset. It's even OK to get mad but when we get upset we lose the peace inside us. When we lose our peace, we are normally feeling stress. When our body is under stress there are all sorts of bad things that happen over time. Also, we feel anxious.
So what's the answer. Well you may or may not like it but we have to chose to stay peaceful. We have to make the decision that peace is something important to us and we have to protect it. Now most of you know that I'm a Christian. Jesus said that he gave me His peace. It was a gift he gave to me but just like all of His gifts I have to chose to recieve it. After I recieve it, I have to protect it.
If someone was breaking into your house to kidnap someone, would you try to stop them? Sure you would. I would even have tried to stop them from taking my little brother when we were kids. Now PK, you are on your own. Just kidding.
To me, inner peace is becoming more and more important. It is definitely worth protecting. There have been two instances in the last three days that have caused me to quit walking in the peace Jesus gave me. In both instances, I had to decide that I was going to remain at peace regardless of the situation. That is the real key, you have to decide that you are going to stay peaceful. Yes, this is something you can do if you chose to do so.
The first time, I was driving out to pick up my kids. As I got to a spot in the road where my lane merged with the lane next to me, the car in the other lane got in front of me and then started driving slower than I wanted to drive. I don't really have road rage and I really didn't get super mad but it did aggravate me. Now here's the great part of this story. As I started to get mad, I recognized that I was losing my peace. When it happened, I decided that it wasn't worth losing peace over and immediately let go of it. Instantly I became much more peaceful. I finally learned how to protect my peace and was successful doing it. For me, this was a major break through.
The second time I got an opportunity to practice what I am saying to you happened about an hour ago. I was faced with a situation that challenged me. This one involved a person in my life. I won't go into the situation but let's just say it was one that I have dreaded for some time. I knew it was going to be unpleasant and involve drama that I did not create but nevertheless would have to deal with. Because I have know for a while that it would have to come, it has caused me to lose my peace several times in the past. Guess what, after the encounter today I lost my peace again. However, this time I realized what happened. It took me a few minutes in the fresh air to think through the situation and I decided that losing my peace and contentment was not something I wanted to do. Honestly, I still don't know what to do with this person. But I do know this, I will remain peaceful. I have chosen not to let this person bother me. If I can do it, you can too.
To summarize, one of the most important things in life is inner peace. It is something to be desired, achieved and then protected. We have to chose to stay at peace regardless of our circumstances but it can be done.
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