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Saturday, May 25, 2024
Holding Grudges
Hi Everyone,
Someone who follows me on
Facebook, NP, asked me to write about holding grudges so here's my take.
We've all been there.
There's that one person who has really done something wrong to us and we
want to get back at them so bad we can taste it. We dream of all the
witty things we would say or how we would act given the chance and we think about
how good it would feel to finally let that person have it. I mean we
deserve to get even with someone if they have done something wrong to us.
If you are a Christian you have to turn the other cheek once but after
that you are out of cheeks and it's time for payback. Now many times we
don't pay the other person back we just think about it.
But even when we do pay
them back, we often feel worse for what we did to them than we did before we
did it. One time I was in a movie theater with my brother and his wife.
We were in line to get popcorn and all the things you need to see a movie
and there was this guy who said that my sister-in-law didn't pay for her hot
dog when I knew she did. I don't remember how it started but he said
something that was kind of insulting and I didn't wait to hold a grudge, I let
him have it right there. I said some really mean stuff that cut him down
to size. Then we went into the movie theater and I felt so terribly awful
for saying the things I said. See my mom always told me that two wrongs
don't make a right. So what did I do? I went back and found the kid
and apologized profusely for my words.
So now let's deal with what
happens when we hold grudges? First of all, the real person it hurts is
us. Grudges don't normally hurt the other person because they normally
don't even know about them. But what they do to our insides is pretty
bad. They make us feel all sorts of negative emotions that really can do
us harm. If we are not careful, we can spend a lot of time mediating on
all the negative stuff which is really bad for us.
But also did you know that
when we hold things against other people that it will hinder our prayers to
God. The bible tells us to forgive others so God can forgive us.
That's pretty heavy stuff. So I can hear some of you saying,
"That all sounds good but I've tried everything and I just can't let go of
this grudge." Well that's not true. Did you know that there is
a lot of power in the words we say. When we go around saying things like
I can't let go, we only make it harder to actually let go.
The answer to this lies in
that hole under our mouth. If you want to let go of a grudge, make a
conscious faith decision to let go. Then say out of your mouth, "I
let go of that grudge that I have against so and so." At that point,
it's a done deal. So what do you do three minutes later when that
negative feeling starts coming up? You say to it, "Nope I have
already let go of the grudge and forgiven that person." If you keep
saying that, eventually it will become a reality in your life and you can finally
be free of the grudge. Remember, if you are a Christian, you got saved by
faith. You can let go of a grudge by faith as well. When you do,
God will help you let go.
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Saturday, January 14, 2023
Prayers that Work
Hello
everyone,
Today
I want to talk to you about prayer. I once heard a man in a gathering say, “Pray
your best prayer.” It sounded like I was supposed to come up with something
really cool to pray and pray it. But that doesn’t work. Have you ever prayed a
prayer and it wasn’t answered? I know I have. I heard someone else say that God’s
answer to prayer is always yes, no, or not now. But that’s not true either. The
Bible says that if we ask in Jesus’ name, and ask according to the will of God,
He will do it. How do we know if we are
asking in the will of God, we find out what He says about something in His Word,
the Bible.
For
example, if someone came up and said to you, “I am believing God, and praying
that He will make that girl marry me,” you would think he’s crazy. It’s simply
a prayer that God cannot answer because it would be manipulating that girl to
do something. God is not a manipulator. That girl might ultimately be the
person that the boy marries, but it wouldn’t be because God answered his prayer
around that. Along the same lines,
I don’t think we can ask God to save someone. But I believe if anyone sees God
and knows who He is, they will want to be saved. The Bible says in Corinthians
that the devil blind the eyes of unbelievers so that they can’t see God. We
have been given authority over the devil, and I believe scripturally that we
can pray, like it says in Corinthians, that God removes the blinders off of someone’s
eyes so they can see God. That’s a
prayer that He can answer.
So let me ask you this, what are you praying? Is what you’re
praying in line with the Word? If it is, believe that you receive it, and never
back down from that. If it’s not or you don’t know if it is, get God to show
you how you’re supposed to pray and pray prayers that work.
If you are reading this
and you don’t know Jesus, I would like to take this opportunity to introduce
you to my friend Jesus. Would you like a personal relationship with Him? All
you have to do is pray this simple prayer. Say, “Jesus, come into my life. I
make you my Lord and Savior.” If you prayed that prayer, I believe you got born
into the family of Christ. The Bible says that Jesus will always be with you.
He wants a relationship with you.
If you prayed, would
you please leave a comment saying, “I prayed”. We would love to know you did.
Also, if you would like
to learn more about who you are and how God really sees you, please click the
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Friday, December 9, 2022
The God Thing
Today I want to talk about the whole God thing. When you say God, most people thing about a religion. But God is not a religion. As a matter of fact, God is not a big fan of religion. In the new testament, there are several places He rebuked the religious leaders. At one point, he ran people out of a church with a whip because of what the religious leaders were allowing.
God is a person and he wants a relationship with you. It’s hard for me to believe that the person
who created the universe wants to have a personal relationship with me but it’s
true. This is what makes Christianity
different from all others – personal relationship.
The way to personal relationship is through His son Jesus. That is who I want you to know today. Jesus came to earth as a man and faced every temptation that we could face. He saw his whole nation turn on him and crucify him. He did it willingly so that He could be with you and I. He wants to be with you wherever you are and in whatever you're going through. In Matthew 28:20 he says that he will be with you always even to the ends of the earth.
He was beaten so you could be well, he was made fun of and
spit on so that He could have the opportunity to be crucified for our sins. He
could have called down 10,000 angels to destroy the world when they were doing
all those mean things to Him. But He didn't. He endured the shame for you and I
and shed his blood so that we could have a relationship with He and His Father.
There's nothing he wants more in all the earth than to be in relationship with
you. He loves us that much.
He's not asking you to follow a bunch of rules, he's asking you to follow Him. You see following the rules is not the way to Jesus. Jesus is the way to following the rules.
If you struggle with something, Jesus knows, and he wants to
help you find freedom. He’s not mad at
you for struggling and you don’t have to be perfect before you come to
him. You and I will never be perfect and
that’s why He wants us to come. He can and
will set us free from the things that we don’t want to do.
Jesus is not a religion, he's a person. And he wants to spend your whole life with you. Will you let him today?
If
you are reading this and you don’t know Jesus, I would like to take this
opportunity to introduce you to my friend Jesus. Would you like a personal
relationship with Him? All you have to do is pray this simple prayer. Say,
“Jesus, come into my life. I make you my Lord and Savior.” If you prayed that
prayer, I believe you got born into the family of Christ. The Bible says that
Jesus will always be with you. He wants a relationship with you.
If you prayed, would you please leave a comment saying, “I prayed”. We would love to know you did.
Also, if you would like to learn more about who you are and how God really sees you, please click the link below. We would love to send you study material absolutely free.
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Saturday, November 26, 2022
What is True Love?
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Mind Control
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Tuesday, July 23, 2019
Waiting on Faith
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Friday, May 24, 2019
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Wednesday, February 13, 2019
Is There A Plan for Your Life?
Today I want to answer a question that we have all struggled with at some point in our lives. Is there a plan for our life? Let me ask it another way, does God have a plan for your life?
The answer to that question begins with the most despicable act ever committed in human history. Do you know what it was? Think of all the horrible things you know about - murder, racism, hate crimes, mean words, assault. The list goes on and on. Here's the answer - eating fruit from a tree. I know it sounds bad, but when Adam and Eve ate from the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, they gave the devil all authority over the earth.
The Bible says that the devil came to kill, steal and destroy and that's exactly what he did. He killed the divine link between God and man. He stole man's right to be part of God's family and he destroyed the tight relationship between Adam, Eve and God. The devil hasn't changed. He's still doing this today. I can't imagine how it felt to Adam and Eve. The whole Cain and Able thing would never have happened if they hadn't eaten from the tree because the devil wouldn't have had authority to operate in the world.
Here's where it gets interesting. The first thing God did after He found out what happened was deal with the devil. He told the devil that there would be enmity between him and man and that man would bruise the devil's head. God knew how bad this was for the world and for His children. He knew what the devil would do throughout the years. He could see all the holocaustic things that would happen over the next several thousand years. What did He do? He immediately announced the plan to bring Adam and Eve back into right relationship with him - Jesus. This is what He was talking about when He said he would bruise the devil's head.
He announced the plan to save the world from all the destruction that would come from the devil. Adam and Eve would one day have a chance to get back in right relationship with God through Jesus sacrifice. God didn't abandon them. He had a plan B. It was Jesus and it was perfect. It was a great plan for the world because it allowed us to be part of his family again.
Let's fast forward to today. Are there things in your life that you think disqualify you from having a good life? Have you ever done something you wish you had not? Maybe you have done something so bad that you think God can't help you anymore.
Is what you did worse than what Adam and Eve did? Absolutely not! The Bible says in Jeremiah 29:11 that God still has a good plan for your life. It may not be his original plan but He always has a plan B and C and D and E.... There is nothing you can do that disqualifies you for the good plan He has for your life? Why? Because for God so loved the world that He gave his only begotten Son and when He did that, it provided a great plan for your life!
So don't let the devil lie to you anymore telling you that you have done something so bad that God can't give you a good life. It's a lie. Start believing what God says about you. You will be surprised where He can take you.
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Tuesday, June 27, 2017
Love Does Not Boast
Today's topic is boasting. When I looked this word up in the dictionary, one of the definitions was to brag about yourself or to brag about your stuff to others (that's the Minion translation). It's interesting because it is very similar to pride but we will talk about pride in the next post. Again, I want you to notice that bragging is an action, not a feeling. We don't feel bragging, we say something that is bragging. So what does this mean?
We all know the one upper. In fact, sometimes we have been the one upper. You know the person. If you tell as story, they have a bigger one. If something good happened to you, something better happened to them. So we shouldn't brag about things in our life right? Well if that's the case, then we should never tell anyone when something good happens to us or when we do something great right? Wrong! I want to stop and say that just because you tell someone about something you have or did, does not make it bragging. When you tell a story to puff yourself up, that's bragging.
So here's what I have learned today. There's a difference between bragging and telling someone about something that's happened to you. That difference is motive. When you brag, you want people to look at you and how great you are. When you tell someone about something great that you did or happened to you and you do it to encourage them, then it's called ministry not bragging.
Let me finish by asking you this question. Do you find yourself ministering or bragging when you tell people what's happening with you? I know there are places in my own life where I can do this better.
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Monday, February 6, 2017
Love is Patient
Today I want to start talking about what love is. Our topic for today is patience. Have you ever had an experience were you were not patient with someone? I know I sure have. If you have children, especially teenagers, it's easy to lose your patience with them. On our streets today, you can see how impatient people are with one another. Well, when we are acting impatiently with each other, we aren't walking in love. That doesn't mean we don't love, it means in that particular instance, we aren't walking in love the way we should. Also, there are opportunities for you to be patient whether you pray for them or not.
I have heard in Christian circles for years that you shouldn't pray for patience because God will cause something to come in your life that requires it. But here's the problem. God is not saying that if you are patient, then you are walking in love. What He's saying is when His love is developed in you then you will be patience. So what you need to pray for is that His love will so grow inside you that you will be a patient person. You aren't doing work to prove love. Love is working which causes results.
Now I want to say a thank you to my wife. She has shown me love by being patient with me. Overall, I'm a good dad and a good husband but there are a couple of things that I need to get straight. My wife has known about them since we met and she's loved me and been patient with me for a long time. Thank you Honey. I love you.
So what does all this mean? Start believing God to change you and out of His love, ask for him to grow the attribute of patience. Then find an opportunity today to be patient. Maybe you need to be patient while other people are ahead of you in line. Maybe you need to be patient with someone while you are driving. Maybe you need to be patient with one of your friends or your parents while they figure things out. Regardless of what it is, find a place today to show someone else love by being patient.
Tuesday, January 20, 2015
Focus
Today I want to talk about focus. Where do you focus the majority of your thoughts? Do you consider all the bad things going on in the world today? Do you consider something bad that's going on at school or in your personal life? Wherever you put your focus, there you will ultimately go. Let me give you a few examples.
In the Bible, there was a guy named Job. Now he was a really rich guy and had several sons and daughters. Interestingly enough he was very afraid that they were saying awful things about God or sinning in some way. So what did he do? He offered sacrifices just in case they might have sinned for them everyday (I think it was every day but if not, it was very often.). Guess what happened? Ultimately the things that he was afraid of, the things where he put his focus, came upon his children. Am I saying that Job caused this, nope. The Bible said it.
Let's shift gears a little. How many of you have every ridden a motorcycle? Several years ago, I got my license with a friend of mine, JC. Now he rode all his life so he was a natural. Me? I looked like someone who needed training wheels for his motorcycle and I still do. I much prefer a four wheeled motorcycle with leather seats, a good air conditioning system and plenty of room. I think those are called cars. Anyway, when I was learning to ride, they taught us how to turn. What we were told was to look where we wanted the bike to go, not where the bike was going. So we would focus on where we wanted the bike to go and it would go that way.
Let me give you one more example and I will make my point. The other day, I was thinking about my company and about being an employee. I run my own company and we do a lot of Oil and Gas work. As some of you may know, the price of oil has dropped a lot lately and that has caused some slowness in the industry. I was worrying a little about my business and whether we would be able to sustain our growth even though I knew that the Lord started this business and I knew he was watching it and causing it to grow. The problem was my focus was on the price of oil and how drastically it could impact my business. I wasn't focused on where I wanted it to go or what the Lord said about it.
I started thinking about being an employee and how easy it must be to just go to work and do your job. After that, an employee collects his or her paycheck and that's it. I started feeling a little sorry for myself thinking about how they don't have to worry about whether or not the check will cash (most of the time) and how easy that must be. Now my business is really fine but I wasn't focused there. That's when the word of the Lord came to me. He said something like, "You should be like those employees you are thinking about. If you would just keep your eyes on Me and roll the care of it over on Me, things would be much better for you!"
That's what I did. I put my focus back on my faith in God and what He is doing in our business. Immediately, I could see where things were going and how good things really are for us!
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Friday, July 25, 2014
Toothpaste
It's been quite a while since I wrote anything but today I want to talk about toothpaste. Toothpaste comes in all different sized tubes and in more flavors than I can count. There is wintergreen, spearmint, peppermint, and the list goes on and on. Now I am not sure about how it comes packaged in other parts of the world but in the United States, most of the time it comes in squeeze tubes with a screw on cap. The tubes are normally bright colors to make you feel good about using their brand and to make their brand look good. It's supposed to be pretty important stuff because it helps us keep our teeth and gums in good health. I can't remember how many times my mom asked if we had brushed our teeth before we went to bed. As a grown up dad of five, I can't count how many times I have asked the same thing to ours.
So why am I talking about toothpaste? It's because we humans have a lot in common with that tube. At a factory somewhere, there are machines and people that put the toothpaste in the tube but did you ever notice that you don't really know what's in the tube until you take the cap off and squeeze the tube? You can't see through the tube normally. As I said a minute ago, you can see the outside of the tube and it may look great but you can't see the inside.
Some of you have probably figured out where I am going with this. See, we can't really know what's inside a person until there is pressure put on that person. It's when the pressure comes from all sides and starts to really squeeze that we get to see what's really inside their "tube." We are all the same way. We can look great on the outside but have real trouble on the inside. But let me tell you this. Whatever you put down on the inside of you is going to come out in words when the pressure is on. Just like that factory, if you put God's word in your heart and you meditate on it regularly, that Word will come out of your mouth when you get into a tough situation. If you're putting negative thoughts and ideas down in your spirit then those same negative things will come out of your mouth under pressure.
Let me ask you this. What kind of toothpaste is on the inside of you? Is it good thoughts? Is it based on the Word of God? Is it something that will help you when the tough times come? Or are you saying things to yourself like, "I'll never make it. My dreams won't come true. I'm not good enough. I'm not pretty enough. I'm not smart enough." If you are doing that, then stop because those negative thoughts are lies. You are good enough, smart enough, pretty enough and God can make your dreams come true.
Let me end it with this. Check out what's on the inside of your tube because the pressure will come and it will come out. If you don't like what's there, then change it. It's not hard. Get a good Bible and start feeding on what God says you are and what God says you can do. Then when the pressure comes, you will start using the words of your mouth to bring you out of that situation and into the place God has for you.
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